What should first-time home sellers know about living in a home that's actively on the market?

You absolutely can live in your home while it’s for sale, but it works best when you set realistic expectations about showings, create routines, and have a simple plan for any kids, pets, and valuables so the process feels safe and manageable rather than chaotic.

How Often Are Showings, and Do You Always Have to Leave?

Most first-time home sellers are surprised by the rhythm of showings. In many cases, interest peaks in the first 1–2 weeks, followed by a slower, more sporadic pace. It can feel intense upfront—especially if you're still adjusting to the idea of strangers walking through your space.

Your agent can help you set a showing schedule that protects important routines like family meals, kids' naps, and work-from-home hours while maximizing available showing hours for potential buyers. But for best results, plan to be out of the house for every showing and open house. Buyers tend to linger longer and give more candid feedback when sellers aren't present, which ultimately benefits your sale.

Kids, Pets, and Everyday Life

Selling your home while living in it is all about prep and flexibility. No one expects perfection, but aiming for "neat & clean" is a good target: clear surfaces, made beds, neutral scents, and an empty kitchen sink go a long way. Rather than deep cleaning daily, schedule a weekly reset to make upkeep manageable.

In between weekly resets, one of the most effective tools to prep for showings is a "15-minute escape plan." Keep baskets handy to stash last-minute clutter, prep a go-bag for any kids and pets, and create a quick checklist for lights, blinds, and general tidying.  This will help keep your home feeling calm and spacious, even while you're actively living in it.

If you do have pets, think through where your pets will go during showings—whether it’s a crate, the car, a neighbor’s house, or daycare. Planning options ahead of time will help keep you and your pets calm.

Safety, Valuables, and Privacy

Before your home goes live on the market, take time to secure items that are valuable or sensitive. This includes:

• Prescription medications

• Firearms and ammunition

• High-value jewelry

• Small electronics

• Important documents

• Spare keys or garage remotes

If you'd worry about losing it in a move, go ahead and lock it up now. Also, remove or store anything that reveals personal details—like calendars, diplomas, mail, or documents with sensitive information. Showings should highlight the home, not your private life.

Final Takeaway

Living in a home that's for sale requires flexibility, planning, and a little patience—especially if you're a first-time seller. But with the right mindset and support, you can keep your day-to-day life intact while still making a strong impression on buyers.

Ready to Make a Move?

If you're thinking about selling your home in the Charleston area, Lauren Zurilla & Associates is here to guide you every step of the way. Call, email, or schedule a listing consultation today to get expert advice tailored to your unique situation.

Warmly.

Lauren, Tina and Gigi | Lauren Zurilla & Associates

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